Ok not everyone has this 'problem', I know some of us are mean and ruthless and don't care when someone is mad at us. However for some of us, including myself, people being mad at us is too much for us to stand. I have some good news! It's all a lie! When we care if someone is mad at us it means we are thinking about getting what we want 'from them'. The paradigm should shift! If we think only of our unending source within and without being our supply, then no one can help that or stand in the way of that! So if we are worried about whether someone is mad at us or not we ARE WASTING TIME! It's actually nice to also notice that the only reason we would care is because we are sooo trying to be the best friend, partner, lover, parent, child etc! We wanna be good! Well stop needing stuff from people, people! The best thing we can do is stop worrying about whether or not people are mad etc and focus on doing the higher's work! When we focus on what the higher would have us do, people generally stop being mad anyhow! It's a win win! What's your experience with letting go of this maddening co dependence and focusing on real altruism!? Real action? Share with us! Shares are the best part!