🙌🏼My Sisters...please take a sec to read: We sometimes think “oh if only he would change this, that, etc.” But Ladies, chicas, sisters...who said we can change ANYONE?🤔
YOU won’t. You can’t make someone fit into some mold you designed. Half the time that mold is straight out of a Disney movie anyway. Completely unrealistic. Can I get an Amen?!! Life is not a movie and there’s no filter for reality. The battlefield of life is in our minds and if we’re not feeding it with truth then we’re letting lies lead us. 👀 Here’s the thing my sisters.. only God can change a person. Let your behavior lead them to Him. 
Its not about trying to convince ANYONE about anything or trying to force it. It’s about letting God change US and letting His transforming love change OUR behavior. Its about abiding in Him and it’ll always be an active pursuit. 
Take the pressure off of yourself to change any human being and focus on being so in love with the One who IS Love that any man who shows interest in you has to seek Him just to find you. ⚓️ #seeds Instagram Photos | videos | post

🙌🏼My Sisters...please take a sec to read: We sometimes think “oh if only he would change this, that, etc.” But Ladies, chicas, sisters...who said we can change ANYONE?🤔 YOU won’t. You can’t make someone fit into some mold you designed. Half the time that mold is straight out of a Disney movie anyway. Completely unrealistic. Can I get an Amen?!! Life is not a movie and there’s no filter for reality. The battlefield of life is in our minds and if we’re not feeding it with truth then we’re letting lies lead us. 👀 Here’s the thing my sisters.. only God can change a person. Let your behavior lead them to Him. Its not about trying to convince ANYONE about anything or trying to force it. It’s about letting God change US and letting His transforming love change OUR behavior. Its about abiding in Him and it’ll always be an active pursuit. Take the pressure off of yourself to change any human being and focus on being so in love with the One who IS Love that any man who shows interest in you has to seek Him just to find you. ⚓️

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From First chapter of Vegas run 
https://thinkingoutloudblg.wordpress.com/2017/01/22/vegas-run-chapter-1-twist-of-fate/?preview=true .
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#vf #wordsofwisdom #humor #vegas #wordporn #wordstoliveby #reads #chapter #first #follow4follow #wordplay #wordsway #writersofinstagram #writingprompts #writer #writers #readers #reads #reading #novel Instagram Photos | videos | post

From First chapter of Vegas run https://thinkingoutloudblg.wordpress.com/2017/01/22/vegas-run-chapter-1-twist-of-fate/?preview=true . . . . . .

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It turns out that you (and only you) have total control over your attitudes. 
Now that is not to say that they are easily changed (although in some senses they are!), it is just to say that ONLY you can change the beliefs and conclusions that YOU have accepted over the years. 
Now (by way of disclaimer), this is also not to say that you can necessarily change them by yourself. Because, many of us need a friend, or counsellor, or skilled helper to understand what beliefs and conclusions have led us to where we are at. After all, who can see their own blindspots? Or have you actually ever tried pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps? 
But the fact remains. At some point. At some time. In some setting... I BELIEVED THE CONCLUSION THAT SET ME UP FOR THE ATTITUDE I NOW MAINTAIN. 
And BELIEVED = accepted, took on board, believed to be true, no longer required any challenging, a fact (about me, others, life, my future...) And so the task of changing attitudes is really the task of RE-THINKING those beliefs and conclusions we have taken on board, and accepted as fact. 
Not easy work. But necessary. If we actually want to change. 
But do you? Really want to change? Or are you happy with the status-quo? The attitudes you carry? And where they are taking you? Instagram Photos | videos | post

It turns out that you (and only you) have total control over your attitudes. Now that is not to say that they are easily changed (although in some senses they are!), it is just to say that ONLY you can change the beliefs and conclusions that YOU have accepted over the years. Now (by way of disclaimer), this is also not to say that you can necessarily change them by yourself. Because, many of us need a friend, or counsellor, or skilled helper to understand what beliefs and conclusions have led us to where we are at. After all, who can see their own blindspots? Or have you actually ever tried pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps? But the fact remains. At some point. At some time. In some setting... I BELIEVED THE CONCLUSION THAT SET ME UP FOR THE ATTITUDE I NOW MAINTAIN. And BELIEVED = accepted, took on board, believed to be true, no longer required any challenging, a fact (about me, others, life, my future...) And so the task of changing attitudes is really the task of RE-THINKING those beliefs and conclusions we have taken on board, and accepted as fact. Not easy work. But necessary. If we actually want to change. But do you? Really want to change? Or are you happy with the status-quo? The attitudes you carry? And where they are taking you?

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❝Ƭhis is the recipe of life,
said my mother
as she held me in her arms as I wept
Ƭhink of those ƒlowers you plant in the garden each year
Ƭhey will teach you that ƤEOPLE TOO 
MUST WILT
ℱALL
ℜOOT
ℜISE
in order to bloom.❞
➖ Ƭhe Sun and ℋer Flowers, ℛupi Kaur 🌻💕📖📸
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#photography #flowers #flowergram #flowerstagram #flower #thesunandherflowers #rupikaur #prose #poetry #positivity #motivationalquotes #goodvibes #goodvibes #wordstoliveby #wordsofwisdom #proselover #nature #naturephotography #lategram #garden #unitedkingdom #kewgardens #greatbritain #uk #livinglovingengland #thoughts #goodmorning #londonlifeinc #toplondonphoto #lovegreatbritain #naturelover @lovegreatbritain @toplondonphoto @thelondonlifeinc Instagram Photos | videos | post

❝Ƭhis is the recipe of life, said my mother as she held me in her arms as I wept Ƭhink of those ƒlowers you plant in the garden each year Ƭhey will teach you that ƤEOPLE TOO MUST WILT ℱALL ℜOOT ℜISE in order to bloom.❞ ➖ Ƭhe Sun and ℋer Flowers, ℛupi Kaur 🌻💕📖📸 . . . . . . .

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🙌🏼My Sisters...please take a sec to read: We sometimes think “oh if only he would change this, that, etc.” But Ladies, chicas, sisters...who said we can change ANYONE?🤔
YOU won’t. You can’t make someone fit into some mold you designed. Half the time that mold is straight out of a Disney movie anyway. Completely unrealistic. Can I get an Amen?!! Life is not a movie and there’s no filter for reality. The battlefield of life is in our minds and if we’re not feeding it with truth then we’re letting lies lead us. 👀 Here’s the thing my sisters.. only God can change a person. Let your behavior lead them to Him. 
Its not about trying to convince ANYONE about anything or trying to force it. It’s about letting God change US and letting His transforming love change OUR behavior. Its about abiding in Him and it’ll always be an active pursuit. 
Take the pressure off of yourself to change any human being and focus on being so in love with the One who IS Love that any man who shows interest in you has to seek Him just to find you. ⚓️ #seeds Instagram Photos | videos | post

🙌🏼My Sisters...please take a sec to read: We sometimes think “oh if only he would change this, that, etc.” But Ladies, chicas, sisters...who said we can change ANYONE?🤔 YOU won’t. You can’t make someone fit into some mold you designed. Half the time that mold is straight out of a Disney movie anyway. Completely unrealistic. Can I get an Amen?!! Life is not a movie and there’s no filter for reality. The battlefield of life is in our minds and if we’re not feeding it with truth then we’re letting lies lead us. 👀 Here’s the thing my sisters.. only God can change a person. Let your behavior lead them to Him. Its not about trying to convince ANYONE about anything or trying to force it. It’s about letting God change US and letting His transforming love change OUR behavior. Its about abiding in Him and it’ll always be an active pursuit. Take the pressure off of yourself to change any human being and focus on being so in love with the One who IS Love that any man who shows interest in you has to seek Him just to find you. ⚓️

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From First chapter of Vegas run 
https://thinkingoutloudblg.wordpress.com/2017/01/22/vegas-run-chapter-1-twist-of-fate/?preview=true .
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#vf #wordsofwisdom #humor #vegas #wordporn #wordstoliveby #reads #chapter #first #follow4follow #wordplay #wordsway #writersofinstagram #writingprompts #writer #writers #readers #reads #reading #novel Instagram Photos | videos | post

From First chapter of Vegas run https://thinkingoutloudblg.wordpress.com/2017/01/22/vegas-run-chapter-1-twist-of-fate/?preview=true . . . . . .

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It turns out that you (and only you) have total control over your attitudes. 
Now that is not to say that they are easily changed (although in some senses they are!), it is just to say that ONLY you can change the beliefs and conclusions that YOU have accepted over the years. 
Now (by way of disclaimer), this is also not to say that you can necessarily change them by yourself. Because, many of us need a friend, or counsellor, or skilled helper to understand what beliefs and conclusions have led us to where we are at. After all, who can see their own blindspots? Or have you actually ever tried pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps? 
But the fact remains. At some point. At some time. In some setting... I BELIEVED THE CONCLUSION THAT SET ME UP FOR THE ATTITUDE I NOW MAINTAIN. 
And BELIEVED = accepted, took on board, believed to be true, no longer required any challenging, a fact (about me, others, life, my future...) And so the task of changing attitudes is really the task of RE-THINKING those beliefs and conclusions we have taken on board, and accepted as fact. 
Not easy work. But necessary. If we actually want to change. 
But do you? Really want to change? Or are you happy with the status-quo? The attitudes you carry? And where they are taking you? Instagram Photos | videos | post

It turns out that you (and only you) have total control over your attitudes. Now that is not to say that they are easily changed (although in some senses they are!), it is just to say that ONLY you can change the beliefs and conclusions that YOU have accepted over the years. Now (by way of disclaimer), this is also not to say that you can necessarily change them by yourself. Because, many of us need a friend, or counsellor, or skilled helper to understand what beliefs and conclusions have led us to where we are at. After all, who can see their own blindspots? Or have you actually ever tried pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps? But the fact remains. At some point. At some time. In some setting... I BELIEVED THE CONCLUSION THAT SET ME UP FOR THE ATTITUDE I NOW MAINTAIN. And BELIEVED = accepted, took on board, believed to be true, no longer required any challenging, a fact (about me, others, life, my future...) And so the task of changing attitudes is really the task of RE-THINKING those beliefs and conclusions we have taken on board, and accepted as fact. Not easy work. But necessary. If we actually want to change. But do you? Really want to change? Or are you happy with the status-quo? The attitudes you carry? And where they are taking you?

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❝Ƭhis is the recipe of life,
said my mother
as she held me in her arms as I wept
Ƭhink of those ƒlowers you plant in the garden each year
Ƭhey will teach you that ƤEOPLE TOO 
MUST WILT
ℱALL
ℜOOT
ℜISE
in order to bloom.❞
➖ Ƭhe Sun and ℋer Flowers, ℛupi Kaur 🌻💕📖📸
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#photography #flowers #flowergram #flowerstagram #flower #thesunandherflowers #rupikaur #prose #poetry #positivity #motivationalquotes #goodvibes #goodvibes #wordstoliveby #wordsofwisdom #proselover #nature #naturephotography #lategram #garden #unitedkingdom #kewgardens #greatbritain #uk #livinglovingengland #thoughts #goodmorning #londonlifeinc #toplondonphoto #lovegreatbritain #naturelover @lovegreatbritain @toplondonphoto @thelondonlifeinc Instagram Photos | videos | post

❝Ƭhis is the recipe of life, said my mother as she held me in her arms as I wept Ƭhink of those ƒlowers you plant in the garden each year Ƭhey will teach you that ƤEOPLE TOO MUST WILT ℱALL ℜOOT ℜISE in order to bloom.❞ ➖ Ƭhe Sun and ℋer Flowers, ℛupi Kaur 🌻💕📖📸 . . . . . . .

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trust the wait loves 🖤 © Emina Gašpar - Vrana 
________________

tag somebody and share the love ❤️ feel free to repost my poems, with tag @emina.gasparvrana or hashtag #eminagasparvrana 
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dm or email me to get hand typed and signed pieces of my poetry — all pieces are for sale and can be dedicated, free shipping worldwide! Instagram Photos | videos | post

trust the wait loves 🖤 © Emina Gašpar - Vrana ________________ tag somebody and share the love ❤️ feel free to repost my poems, with tag or hashtag _______________ dm or email me to get hand typed and signed pieces of my poetry — all pieces are for sale and can be dedicated, free shipping worldwide!

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